When we were in twenties, thirties, forties and beyond, who among us would have thought dating at 70 would have been an issue?  I, for one, with great melodrama, believed I’d die at an early age.  “Died before she had

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It’s so easy to be judgmental, particularly if you’ve come from a family like mine who had narrow visions of life, love and especially sex.  It’s so easy to be judgmental that often we don’t even know we are.  I

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Why Bother With Orgasms?

At age 69 I didn’t have to pursue changing medications with my doctor.  I didn’t have to visit a sex shop.  I definitely didn’t have to buy toys and porn.  There was no man in my life.  I did it

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The Path to Freedom

I have always been in search for the truth but it was always out of my grasp. Through my memoir I have uncovered it. It was always there, I discovered, under layers of misinformation, manipulation, and sometimes lies. I didn’t

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My sexual awakening at 70

I was sexually “conservative.” Back when I was single, I let myself go a few times, but my head was mostly filled with phrases like “a nice, Jewish girl doesn’t enjoy sex.” That was about to change. After my husband

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